14 February 2013

Red Hot Valentine's Day Spanking

Red. The color of passion and love. Red. Evidence of a husband's firm hand on his wife's bare bottom. Red.
 
Why wait? Husbands, be bold and add a spanking to your other Valentine's Day plans. Do it before the end of the day, so there is plenty of time for both of you to think about what the spanking communicates before you are visited by the sandman. If your lovely wife is unlikely to appreciate hot red in the spirit of the moment, you may want to consider warm pink on this special occasion. Place your sweetheart over your lap and deliver a pleasantly toasty reminder that boldly says that you are her husband, leader, protector, and passionate lover. Take it slowly and clearly express your gratitude for your wife's willingness to submit to you. Her submission is her daily gift to you, so use this special opportunity to acknowledge her gift and reciprocate with your own gift of authority.
 
A spanking may seem like an odd gift to give on a day that is dedicated to love, yet when given outside of the confines of discipline or sexual foreplay, a spanking has the capacity to communicate your love for each other in a way that a box of chocolates never will. All wrapped up in a spanking of this nature you will find trust, intimacy, caring, dedication, commitment, loyalty, touch, and giving.
 
Red. Or pink. Add your favorite color to your celebration today.
 
Happy Valentine's Day!

12 comments:

  1. Awesome post, OFM. Daddy has already promised a lovely, toasty red :D To us it communicates exactly what you described. It helps us thrive and grow, deepens our communication.

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    1. Wonderful, June. May you and Ward continue to grow closer and deeper in your relationship.

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  2. I really thought this was a nice post! Thank you for sharing! ♥♥

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  3. sixofthebest17/2/13 08:57

    Yes, I like your philosphy. A rosy red feminine bare bottom, is perfect for Valentine's Day. Or any other day of the year. Because that is the way a husband remains Head of the Household, in a perfect old-fashioned marriage,

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    1. Thanks for your comment, Sixofthebest. Spanking your wife is not the only way to maintain clearly defined marital roles, but it is an old fashioned style of communication that, when used wisely, is rather effective at achieving the goal of well defined roles.

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  4. Actually, I was the recipient of such a gift, and it did turn out to be the beginning of mending some issues that were plaguing us. I was not happy at the time, but I co-operated and was pleased to end the day in my husband's arms. I highly recommend the reconnection of submitting to your husband and finding your femininity in the act of doing so....
    hugs
    lillie

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    1. Marital spanking (where each partner co-operates in the process) can certainly play a signficant role in healing some marriage issues. At its core, marital spanking really is an intimate form of communication. It's great to hear that you accepted this gift, and allowed it to enhance your femininity. Thanks for sharing that, Lillie.

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  5. I read this post the other day, and couldn't fully appreciate it because I was sitting on a sore bottom courtesy of a piqued husband on Valentine's Day.....long story. The point is for reconnection, or to put your saucy wife back into her TiH place, it is truly a gift to show your love through strong leadership.
    I just had to let everything sink in before I could come back and share those feelings.
    hugs
    lillie

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    1. Your attitude is inspirational, Lillie. Thank you for coming back and sharing this. Yes, when a loving husband spanks his lovely wife, it isn't always fun and giggles, BUT when the sting has died down and the tears have dried up, there is often a special closeness that remains. And wrapped up in that closeness is a husband with a greater sense of authority and masculinity, and a wife with more respect and desire for her man.

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  6. Oh my goodness! I should've gotten blood red butt! But I received a harsh punishment!!! Great post!

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