tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post4298298656006394768..comments2023-03-30T08:03:00.944-05:00Comments on Old Fashioned Marriage: The Modern WoodshedOld Fashioned Marriagehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-49604821042339185452013-02-20T18:34:32.171-06:002013-02-20T18:34:32.171-06:00Thanks for sharing your viewpoint, Sixofthebest.Thanks for sharing your viewpoint, Sixofthebest.Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-90073864325874001922013-02-17T09:06:32.962-06:002013-02-17T09:06:32.962-06:00Right on about a Woodshed, be it in an urban (city...Right on about a Woodshed, be it in an urban (city) area. Or suburban (country )area. A place must be set aside, so that a husband can corporal punish his wife if she is need of one. sixofthebestnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-69857274126457067262012-09-22T11:02:18.419-05:002012-09-22T11:02:18.419-05:00Thanks for your comment and for sharing your "...Thanks for your comment and for sharing your "woodshed", Lucy. The closet sounds like a good idea.Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-72457555707045528802012-09-21T16:17:45.774-05:002012-09-21T16:17:45.774-05:00I know a lot has been going around about "rou...I know a lot has been going around about "routines". We currently don't have a routine but the place of correction is our closet. I think a lot can be said with each spouse having time to wrap their minds around the infraction and correction to come. Very thought provoking post. Thank you, LucyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-36106023651810040872012-09-21T11:55:16.918-05:002012-09-21T11:55:16.918-05:00Thanks for sharing your experience, Vincent. Under...Thanks for sharing your experience, Vincent. Understanding is certainly a vital element in effective correction.Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-70853608662547615892012-09-21T10:15:39.439-05:002012-09-21T10:15:39.439-05:00I usually send my wife to our room if the situatio...I usually send my wife to our room if the situation calls for more than a quick, sharp slaps to her fanny right there on the spot. If I am angry, I cool off first before I join her. I agree that the time alone gives us both a chance to get our thinking straight so we don't just go through the motions or react emotionally. Nothing is gained (except a sore hand and a very sore bottom) if the spanking isn't accompanied by understanding of what went wrong, and that takes a little time alone with a clear head.Vincentnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-69426079236792718712012-09-20T16:50:52.756-05:002012-09-20T16:50:52.756-05:00Thanks for sharing your "woodshed", Cowg...Thanks for sharing your "woodshed", Cowgirl. Yes, the bedroom remains the most popular modern "woodshed" - a safe place to focus on all facets (even the uncomfortable, painful ones) of the marriage.Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-91163607141694797342012-09-20T16:48:18.374-05:002012-09-20T16:48:18.374-05:00Thanks for reiterating that love is central to dom...Thanks for reiterating that love is central to domestic discipline, Jenna. Certainly do encourage your husband to explore new aspects of your relationship with you - reading stimulating articles together is a great way to encourage discussions that might otherwise be a little awkward.Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-14853424270854602322012-09-20T16:45:35.344-05:002012-09-20T16:45:35.344-05:00Your comment is very insightful, June. Yes, the be...Your comment is very insightful, June. Yes, the bedroom is a great reminder that love must saturate the act of correction. Thanks for sharing.Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-72649105523915789012012-09-20T16:43:46.685-05:002012-09-20T16:43:46.685-05:00Thanks for sharing your opinion, Lillie/Ian. Feeli...Thanks for sharing your opinion, Lillie/Ian. Feeling comfortable is certainly a big part of benefiting from a discipline session, and the couple's bedroom will probably always be the most popular modern "woodshed". Old Fashioned Marriagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241184643141521461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-38818907597900334342012-09-20T15:06:35.520-05:002012-09-20T15:06:35.520-05:00Our woodshed is our bedroom too. I can understand ...Our woodshed is our bedroom too. I can understand why some would chose to use a different location though. To me, spanking is an incredibly intimate, and yes, even loving act. Our bedroom seems the perfect place for such an act.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-67808324581944362452012-09-20T07:19:00.848-05:002012-09-20T07:19:00.848-05:00Yes, when my husband punishs me, if is done in lov...Yes, when my husband punishs me, if is done in love, so we have no problem with doing a punishment in our bedroom, or in any other room for that matter. We have never picked one specific place to punish, though. Maybe I will show my husband this article and see what he thinks about selecting our own "woodshed". Jennanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-80178041628990297022012-09-19T21:09:04.557-05:002012-09-19T21:09:04.557-05:00I agree with Lillie. I'd also say that using t...I agree with Lillie. I'd also say that using the bedroom rather than making other intimacies uncomfortable, or ill-associated, can bring a reminder to the correction that everything comes from a place of love and desire for honesty and intimacy. Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8723628156599645798.post-19341885878714092602012-09-19T20:24:34.727-05:002012-09-19T20:24:34.727-05:00Our woodshed is our bedroom. At first I wondered ...Our woodshed is our bedroom. At first I wondered how I felt about that, but now I appreciate it, because I am comfortable there. I think the HoH sets the mood, and the place (as long as it is private) is not really all that important. <br />It is the one on one time together that decides if it will be an experience that helps or hinders.<br />Just my opinion.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12062533298458764009noreply@blogger.com